Another suggestion is put something of yours in the crate with her. Having your sent with her will help to calm her down. Also don’t give into her when she is throwing a fit. It’s hard cause you just want her to shut up but she will eventually get the message and calm down when she realizes you aren’t going to respond to her when she acts like that. I took my pit took puppy kindergarden and they do reccommend you put them in the same room as you. It’s your prefernce. It sounds like she is going to be a dog that is going to have seperation anxiety I have one of those and the other one i have just has a bad attitude when i leave the house. She is destructive so that will be my next thing to look out for.